While we might’ve seen it in music and television shows years ago, I think the generation gap is showing up in a different spot this time around. Below, I believe the question posed to Grace—a parent fostering a relationship with their adult child—hit the nail on the head. It’s not about disco vs. pop anymore; it’s about time management.

Right now, many of us 20s, 30s, and 40s folks have our own roofs, are settling into our chosen careers, and have established families. We’re grateful. It’s also really hard to juggle everything, and sometimes it feels impossible to add one more thing to the list—even if it’s something we want to do.

I’m not sure exactly what the solution is. Of course, family is important. For sure, relationships rely on communication. But there’s also a difference between needing an adult for things as a child and exploring our own individual paths as we each navigate adulthood. I’m sure there’s a balance somewhere—just remember, balance is never one-sided. Here’s to figuring it out together because I’m so glad you’re here. 

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Welcome to our weekly advice column, courtesy of Grace: She’s the big sister who shares her own mistakes so you can avoid making them, the coworker who builds you up to ask for the raise you deserve, and the friend who is always happy to listen.

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In place of typical “events” this week, I wanted to highlight some places to explore throughout Virginia for Women’s History Month. These are taken from a longer article written by Aila Boyd, which you can access here. Do you have somewhere to add to this list? If so, email me at amie@couriernewsroom.com to let me know. 

❤️ The Henrietta Lacks Plaza in downtown Roanoke celebrates the legacy of Henrietta Lacks, a native of Roanoke who has contributed to modern scientific advancements in immeasurable ways following the 1951 taking of her cancerous cervical cells without consent.

❤️ The Military Women’s Memorial honors the countless women who have courageously served the country. Surprisingly, it’s the only major national memorial of its kind. It can be found at the entrance to Arlington National Cemetery.

❤️ The Maggie L. Walker Memorial Plaza shines light on the legacy of Maggie L. Walker, a native of Richmond who is remembered as being an early example of African American female entrepreneurship. In 1903, she became the first Black woman to charter a bank in the U.S. when she launched St. Luke Penny Savings Bank.

Thanks for reading. This newsletter was written by Amie Knowles. Amie is a lifelong Virginia resident and mom to a fantastic 8-year-old who loves Pokémon. This edition includes stories from Aila Boyd and Galvanize Together. It was edited by Paula Solis.

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