Hey, y’all. It’s Amie.

When we were 12 years old, my best friend and I started building a log cabin. We put four or five felled trees in a crisscross pattern and permanently borrowed some of my dad’s and uncle’s extra-long nails to keep them together. Then, we decided that was plenty enough to have fun in, and the construction of Lou and Buckets’ Log Cabin came to a close.

That was 20 years ago—and I still think fondly of that questionable structure. No, I wouldn’t suggest that path for the reader below who’s striving to purchase a place for her family, but I mention that story to make a point: A house doesn’t have to be fancy to have all the qualities of a home, and it seems she’s definitely heading in the right direction. I’m so glad you’re here.

P.S.—Our parent company kindly gives us time off to enjoy with our loved ones during the holiday season, so starting next week, we’ll have an altered newsletter schedule through the end of the year. You can expect to see us in your inbox on Dec. 22, 23, and 30, as well as Jan. 2. Come Jan. 5, we’re back to regularly scheduled programming.

Amie Knowles

Newsletter Editor, Dogwood

Welcome to our weekly advice column, courtesy of Grace: She’s the big sister who shares her own mistakes so you can avoid making them, the coworker who builds you up to ask for the raise you deserve, and the friend who is always happy to listen.

We all need someone like Grace in our corner. Submit your own questions here.

I’m saving up to buy a home for my kids, but I’m falling behind. How do I catch up?

Dear Grace,

I want to save money to buy a small house for myself and my girls, but I feel like I’m failing due to my work situation. Things are starting to slow down, and I’m struggling with bills. Do you have any ideas to help me get back on my feet?

— Concerned For My Family’s Future, Covington

Dear Concerned,

First of all, you are not failing. You are showing up for your girls every single day, and that already makes you a good mom. I know how heavy it feels when the math doesn’t add up and you’re doing everything you can just to keep the lights on and the fridge stocked.

Wanting a home that offers stability and a chance to build wealth for your family is a beautiful goal and one that should feel within your reach. You care deeply about your daughters’ future, and no matter where you are in your home-buying journey, that’s something to be proud of.

Let’s talk about how you can start saving for you and your girls’ future…

Read Grace’s response

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Last week, we asked what Gov. Glenn Youngkin’s next endeavor should be after leaving office on Jan. 17. Y’all answered in droves—and that made this newsletter editor very, very happy.

So this week, we’re asking a similar question—but with a twist! When Youngkin moves out, that means Gov.-elect Abigail Spanberger moves in. What do you hope she tackles right off the bat?

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Virginia Events

We’re sharing a quick roundup of neat things to do over the next few days. Have an event you’d like to see featured? 💌 Send it my way!

Monday, Dec. 15 at 6 p.m. (Danville)

The Community Holiday Light Show at Ballou Park returns with a festive drive-thru display. The event is ongoing nightly through Dec. 23 from 6 to 9 p.m., and admission is $10 per car and $20 per mini-bus or passenger van. More information is available here.

Saturday, Dec. 20 at 9:30 p.m. (Virginia Beach)

Get ready to boogie. South Beach Grill is hosting an Ugly Sweater Party just days before Santa comes to town. Come enjoy live music, great food, and a fun atmosphere. Click here for more info.

Sunday, Dec. 21 at 6 p.m. (Glen Allen)

Join SkateNation Plus for the Magical Parade on Ice event, featuring a selection of beloved Disney characters. “From timeless classics to modern favorites, this dazzling show will sweep you away on a journey filled with music, sparkle, and heart,” according to the event description. Get your tickets here.

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Thanks for reading. This newsletter was written by Amie Knowles, with content from Galvanize Together. It was edited by Paula Solis. Amie is a lifelong Virginia resident and mom to a fantastic 7-year-old who loves monster trucks.

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